Dating & First Steps!
From Web2Romance
------------MODERATOR Question4Magnet
This portal contains technical information on dating dynamics, strategies for improving personal attractiveness and communication effectiveness. This is not a one man operation, users and visitors are encouraged to share their experiences, advice and techniques regarding attraction, dating and social dynamics.
Are you desperate?
Well, you shouldn't be. Nobody likes a desperate person; it feels like they are stealing your energy from you every time you hang out with them. There are a few rules that desperate people need to understand about social dynamics. Number one, people will never consciously choose to spend time with people of lower status than them, unless in very special circumstances. Number two, people want to be around those of higher or equal status than them. I will leave the particularities to you.
Look at yourself from the 3rd person viewpoint; are you high status, confident and strong? Or are you low status, needy, desperate and weak? This is one of those “proof of the pudding is in the eating" types of problems. Start acting high status, confident and strong and I guarantee you will see immediate results.
However, sometimes it is beyond us to simply stop doing the destructive behavior because of a deeper emotional turmoil. In this section, you will learn how to attain complete, undivided control over your emotions. You will become your own guru of the heart, a samurai of your relationships. Interested? Read on!
Understanding women
Women are not from Venus, and we are NOT from Mars! in fact, women are very much similar to us in more ways than we care to admit, and we will prove it to you here.
The age-old question: "what do women want?". Exhaustive research has been done in this area of dating. It now appears clear to us that women dont really want much. In fact, they dont know what they want for the most part. Surely, she has a blueprint of the perfect partner somewhere deep in her head and men will spend ages getting awfully close to that ideal and ultimately getting nowhere.
In this section, we will make an important distinction between what she wants and what she NEEDS. I believe there is a considerable variation between needs and wants.
Understanding men
YES! We are dogs, and YES! We only want sex. At least up to the point. Men are linear and predictable; after all, simplicity is beautiful... Our bodies maintain an army of 500 million sperm, ready for combat at any moment. I think that nature made us this way for no other reason but to "spread the seed". However, I also think that somewhere in the neighborhood of 90% of all the players out there, given the perfect girl, will gladly settle down for a long term relationship. Every woman out there deserves to feel like she is the only one in the world. The tricky part is to find the man who is capable of seeing her beauty in a special way. Dearest ladies, a fantasy like that don’t come cheap. In fact, it takes months of training and religious effort with stoic determination to mold your man into that. And you have to do it with utmost subtlety, lest you hurt his fragile male ego.
In this section, you will learn timeless techniques of winning the heart of Mr. Right. If you want to know how to find, attract and keep quality men in your life, then this section is for you.
Where do I meet new Women?
Now that we got the theory out of the way, let's get the logistics going. Where to meet women. Well, Anywhere! And the more improbable the better. I've been very fortunate at meeting the most incredible women in the most unlikely places. You should never be afraid of meeting a woman. There is no 'wrong time' to meet a woman. I have meet women during a job interview, at a restaurant while having dinner with my mother, in the middle of a busy highway, at an airplane bathroom. I once met a wonderful woman while she was giving me a parking ticket...the list goes on. In this section we will show you that 'all is fair in love and in war'. We will tell you where to look to meet women in any situation.
Approaching a woman
Here comes the technical part. We didn't want to include this section out of fear of being chastised by women for teaching guys how to manipulate them. After a few modifications, I think this guide is more than acceptable to both men and women. This is a step by step manual of how to meet women compiled by men, for men. It contains how-to's, Strategies and techniques along with contingencies to commonly occurring problems. If there is ever a 'what if' in your mind, chances are we have the answer for you right here. Enjoy...
What do I do next
You are standing at a flower shop, your shirt is ironed, and shoes are spotless. You are ready to go. In this section we will explain to you the dating dynamics, the how's the’s and when's of Dating in North America. Take good notes and play your cards right and together, we will give the night she will not soon forget. Learn how to make her want to see you tomorrow, the day after, the week after and so on. We will teach you what quest to look for to help you calibrate your approach and make your first date as seamless and smooth as possible. Remember, it’s basically an interview...
